Troppi complimenti fanno male ai bambini

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La notizia è di quelle che mi ha fatto sorridere per non dire ridere: i piccoli elogiati costantemente sarebbero sotto pressione. 
Secondo gli psicologi dell’Ohio State University e della università di Amsterdam che hanno  osservato 144 genitori (88% mamme) e 240 bambini, rivolgere complimenti ed esagerare in questi, soprattutto verso bimbi più insicuri al fine di farli sentire più forti può non essere una buona idea. Secondo gli specialisti l’uso di avverbi e aggettivi nel valutare positivamente i figli non servirebbe. 
Microba qualche mattina fa mi disse: come sei bella mamma. Non feci in tempo a sciogliermi che aggiunse: anche io però sono bella. È da sempre abituata a ricevere complimenti e non mi sembra proprio ne risenta negativamente. Anzi…

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